Lived Experience

What is Lived Experience?

A lived experience of suicide includes those who have experienced suicidal thoughts and behaviours, survived a suicide attempt, cared for someone through suicidal crisis, or are bereaved by suicide.

The Importance of Lived Experience

People with lived experience are uniquely placed to inform how the sector can better identify people before they reach a crisis point, support people through a crisis, and support those grieving and/or bereaved.

Their personal journeys provide valuable insights into the complex nature of suicide, helping to shape effective strategies and support systems. By sharing their lived experience, these individuals offer a profound understanding of the challenges, emotions, and vulnerabilities that contribute to suicidal thoughts and behaviors. Their first-hand knowledge fosters empathy, compassion, and a genuine connection with those who are struggling, making them powerful advocates and allies across suicide prevention.

Incorporating their voices ensures that the suicide prevention sector remains grounded in real-life experiences and empowers organisations to develop comprehensive, inclusive, and impactful solutions that can save lives.

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Lived Experience at Suicide Prevention Australia

Reflected in our strategic compass, lived experience of suicide is integral to our work at Suicide Prevention Australia. Working with people who have a lived experience of suicide allows us to better represent our members’ views and experiences to the government and other external groups.

As an organisation, we are proud to have people with lived experience on our team at all levels of the organisation. Many of our organisational members represent people with lived experience, have been born from lived experience, or actively include the voice of lived experience in their activities. Our members, Black Dog Institute, and Roses in the Ocean, are funded to provide lived experience leadership under the federal government’s National Suicide Prevention Leadership and Support Program.

Suicide Prevention Australia is grateful to have a Lived Experience Panel, who actively participate in many of our committees and collaborate with us on major projects. Members of our Lived Experience Panel participate on:

  • Our Board
  • Joint State and Territory Committees
  • Research Advisory Committee
  • Policy Committee
  • LiFE Awards judging
  • The National Suicide Prevention Conference abstracts, program development and bursaries
  • Consultation on marketing and communication projects
  • Consultation on quality, systems and practice projects
  • Consultation on membership projects and events
  • Consultation on policy and government relations projects
Meet Our Lived Experience Panel

GLENN COTTER

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Glenn works with Healthy Communities Foundation Australia as a Lived Experience Peer Worker in the National Rural & Remote Suicide Prevention Program across the Bega Valley on the NSW Far South Coast. Glenn spent a number of years as Deputy Chair of Bega SPAN before taking on a role with R U OK? as a Community Ambassador in 2018.

Glenn is a member of the Suicide Prevention Australia Lived Experience Panel and a member of the Voices of Insight with Roses in the Ocean, along with being recognised in the Barbara Hocking Awards for work in ‘Suicide Prevention and for Services to the Community’ by Bega Valley Shire Council as well as being nominated for an Australian Mental Health Prize in 2022.

Glenn is passionate about the value of lived experience in suicide prevention and suicidal crisis counselling and has joined the Lived Experience Panel to help those in rural and regional areas have a voice.

MARK DAVIS

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I started out as an idealistic, capable constable who believed he had a lifelong, worthwhile and challenging career. Then as promotion, responsibility and workload increased, I changed. My work and relationships suffered. I was angry, burdened by worry and convinced I was a failure. I became plagued by physical symptoms that had no explanation. I increasingly felt that I should end my life, and I attempted to do so. After this, I was invalided out of the force and told I would never work again, diagnosed with what is now called Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), depression and anxiety. I found myself just sitting at home. My turning point came when I planned to take my own life again. I stopped and told someone else, something that I’d never considered doing before. With the help of my doctors, hospitalisation and a perceptive and loving wife, I survived. I have gone on to fill responsible and enjoyable positions.

Over 30 years later, I’ve gone from detective in charge of a police station to being a member of the Lived Experience Panel for the peak body for suicide prevention in Australia. I’m providing part of the pool of knowledge to understand the problem, and in some small way to assist with solutions. I hope I can prevent others suffering as I did. To anyone that is thinking of taking your own life, please pause just a moment. It is too big a problem to go it alone, tell someone about your problems. The help offered by others will make all the difference and open up a new world. I’ve lived a long life with my conditions, I am accomplished and satisfied, and most importantly I can now accept support and love, and provide them in return. Mark is occupied full time on a voluntary basis in the mental health and suicide prevention arenas for which he was awarded the Tasmanian LiFE Award. His work includes ongoing assistance to individuals as a peer support worker for which he has received the governor generals medallion.

LIDIA DI LEMBO

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Lidia Di Lembo lives in Darwin, NT and is a bereaved mother who lost her daughter Sabrina to suicide. The impact of this traumatic loss propelled Lidia and her husband to establish SabrinasReach4Life, a small charity/foundation in memory of their daughter, which is also a Suicide Prevention Network. Fundraising and awareness activity help support a Charles Darwin University scholarship to support a student studying in the faculty of Psychology or Social Work, and a monthly Bereaved by Suicide Support Group. Lidia also spearheaded the establishment of an annual event for World Suicide Prevention Day since 2019, which brings the sector together to discuss local challenges and solutions in suicide prevention.

Lidia is very active in advocating for improved and accessible mental health services for those who need support; further developing the peer led workforce as clinicians, whilst needed, are not the only ones who can assist those in distress; and through her involvement in Postvention Australia as Co Chair also helps strategically elevate the voice of those bereaved by suicide who are at high risk of suicide after a loss. These roles including being a member of the SPA Lived Experience Panel enable Lidia to collaborate, influence and contribute to the future development of government policy and strategies in suicide prevention and postvention.

GRAEME HOLDSWORTH

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Graeme Holdsworth is an architect who spent most of his career in project management. He was a project director for major building projects throughout Australia, for the private and government sectors, including No.1 Martin Place, Sydney and Crown Casino, Melbourne. He is now retired, largely due to severe depression, which saw him lose his career, marriage and nearly his life through a suicide attempt. Since his recovery, he has decided, rather than attempting to go back to his old career, to use his lived experience to work in suicide prevention.

He holds various roles with Suicide Prevention Australia, including being a member of the Suicide Prevention Australia Board, the Chair of the Victoria and Tasmania Joint State Committee and a member of the Policy Committee. He is also a member of the Lifeline Lived Experience Advisory Group, a Black Dog Institute Lived Experience Advisor and was a member of the Expert Advisory Group to the National Suicide Prevention Adviser to the Prime Minister.

CRAIG HUGHES-CASHMORE

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Craig is the CEO and co-founder of Survivors & Mates Support Network (SAMSN).

He was appointed as a Community Member on the Victims Advisory Board by the Attorney General of NSW and sits on the NSW Sentencing Council. Craig is also a member of the National Memorial Advisory Group (Commonwealth Govt), the Expert Advisory Group for the Prevention and Response to Violence, Abuse and Neglect (NSW Health) and a member of Transforming Justice Australia’s Expert Advisory Panel. Craig is also the inaugural Chair of the Australian Centre for Child Protection’s Lived Experience Advisory Panel, and a member of the Victorian Department of Education’s Board of Inquiry Community Reference Group.

DR NIKKI JAMIESON

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Dr. Nikki Jamieson is a suicidologist, author, researcher and social worker, with a Masters in Suicidology, and a PhD that explored moral trauma/moral injury and suicide.

Nikki has worked in several government departments in suicide prevention, and has been involved in a range of research projects and strategy development including Queensland’s Suicide Prevention Plan. Currently, her role is leading work in moral injury, lived experience and suicide prevention in the Department of Defence.

Nikki continues to be actively involved in suicide prevention advocacy and policy development with memberships nationally and internationally and has played an instrumental role in the Royal Commission, in a professional and personal capacity.

Nikki will continue to advocate for better mental health and wellbeing support and suicide reduction particularly for members of the Defence forces, veterans and their families.

DR GRENVILLE ROSE

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Suicide touches so many people in so many different ways. My first experience with suicide happened when I was young, at university, and my study partner took his life. I attempted suicide not long after. I realised that I needed help, and approached my GP, who admitted me to a psychiatric hospital.

The hospital treatment wasn’t right for me, and a year later I attempted to take my own life again. I was fortunate to have alert friends who saved my life. After a few years struggling with depression and substance abuse issues, I went back to university.

I have now finished a couple of degrees and settled into a long term relationship. The sense of connection I have with my wife, family, friends and colleagues has helped to keep the negative thoughts from my mind.

My life has been touched by suicide in many ways. When I was living at college at university, on my recovery journey, a young person I knew took her life after bullying at the college. A close friend of mine recently took their life, leaving behind two teenage daughters and a partner.

My personal experiences with suicide motivated me to join the Suicide Prevention Australia Lived Experience Panel. Every suicide is a tragedy. We need to know more and do more to reduce the tragedy for families and the community. My message to anyone is that you may feel that there is no-one and nothing for you, but there is always someone there – perhaps you just can’t see it right now.

JENNY SMITH

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Mental illness has played a big part in my life – my sister, my late father and I have all been impacted over the last 30 years.

My sister has had suicidal thoughts and attempted to take her own life on a few occasions in the past. She is in a much better place now thanks to the right combination of medications and ongoing psychological therapy.

I`ve had a few thoughts in the past about taking my own life when I was very depressed. I still take medication on a daily basis, and I am now a lived experience representative and consumer advocate. I also sit on a number of committees and panels, and take part in volunteer work within the mental health sector.

I joined the Suicide Prevention Australia Lived Experience Panel because I want to make a difference, advocate on behalf of others that have been impacted by suicide, and increase public awareness and understanding of suicide.

MELANIE CLARK

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Mel works at SafeSide Prevention as their Program Coordinator and Family Advocate. Mel’s passion for suicide prevention is grounded in her lived experience of caring for her brother and acting as his advocate in interactions with health services and other departments in community. Alongside the heartache and frustration, Mel found a source of hope in the use of her experiences as a means to drive real change.

Mel has actively advocated for families as a Family Carer Representative in NSW, Australia. She has worked in the community directly alongside diverse groups, including children and young people, parents and caregivers, victims, offenders, Police and other frontline responders. She aims to reduce harm and promote wellness & connection.

Mel draws upon wisdom from her lived experience to inform, collaborate, and educate in the mental health and suicide prevention sectors and is passionate about elevating the voices of others. The principles of co-design and family-inclusive practice are central to her work, and she believes that early intervention and prevention are the keys to timely recovery.

KARISSA LEWIS

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Karissa Lewis brings both personal and professional lived experience to suicide prevention and postvention. Having lost her mother to suicide at just 10 years old, she is deeply committed to breaking stigma, fostering hope, and driving meaningful systemic change.

With nine years of experience in community services and peer work, Karissa has spent the past three years immersed in suicide postvention, walking alongside over 150 families in their aftermath of suicide. She has sat in loungerooms across Australia, holding space for grief, honouring stories, and ensuring no family feels alone in their darkest moments.

Karissa is passionate about ensuring that lived experience is not just heard but meaningfully embedded in suicide prevention strategies. She believes that robust postvention is vital suicide prevention and that compassionate, community-driven responses are essential to reducing suicide rates.

Through her role on the Lived Experience Panel, Karissa hopes to amplify the voices of those who have been impacted by suicide, advocating for a system that is responsive, humane, and led by those who truly understand.

RICHARD HENDRIE

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Richard, accompanied by his assistance dog, Havic, hails from Albury in NSW on Wiradjuri Country where he is the 2025 Citizen of the Year, recognition for decades of advocacy for local mental health consumers.

Richard is the founding Chair of the NSW Ministry Consumer, Carer, and Community Council, a whole-of-health advisory board providing guidance to the senior executive of the NSW Ministry of Health. Additionally, he serves as a Non-Executive Director of BEING Mental Health Consumers, as a lived experience expert on the NSW Ministry’s Suicide Monitoring and Reporting System and serves on academic committees at the ANU and Federation university.

Richard lives with PTSD and DID, is a suicide survivor, and holds numerous academic qualifications in arts, social work, forensic psychology, and law

HOPE CARBERRY

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Hope Carberry is the Lived Experience Practice Lead at StandBy – Support After Suicide.

Shaped by the loss of both her father and brother to suicide, Hope brings deep personal insight and authenticity to her work in suicide bereavement and postvention.

She is passionate about ensuring lived experience is used with care and intention, and her approach is grounded in connection, empathy, and a commitment to walking alongside those navigating profound loss.

JO KAIN

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Jo Kain is a Business Development Officer (Lived Experience) with Grand Pacific Health, and mother of two beautiful kids, living in country New South Wales. Jo has survived a suicide attempt and continues to live with her own experiences of suicidal thoughts.

In 2017, Jo transitioned to peer work, from banking, working in suicide aftercare in Grand Pacific Health’s Next Steps program. Her roles have included serving as a Team Leader in Next Steps, a peer coordinator, and a lived experience trainer and assessor.

Jo is an executive member of the Illawarra Shoalhaven Suicide Prevention Collaborative and a member of the Bega Valley Suicide Prevention Collaborative. This involvement is important to her, keeping her close to the communities she loves, and bringing energy to her roles. Jo is dedicated to amplifying the consumer voice in suicide prevention, and in sharing experience to make change in the suicide prevention sector.

STEPHEN KILKEARY

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Timing is everything, so they say, and so I feel now is a good time for me to be involved in a process where people with actual lived experience of suicide can contribute to long overdue legislative and policy reform. I say this when reflecting on how for the first time ever in this country, the National Suicide Prevention Strategy 2025-2035 has finally acknowledged the key role social determinants play in overall deaths by suicide. That said, I also concede that significant tensions still exist, such as the strategy buckling under the overbearing pressure of the dominant biomedical explanatory model to delimit social determinants to a secondary, ‘interactional’ role.

As someone whose entire life (and then some) has been influenced by suicide, I have a keen professional and personal interest in how violence, of itself, causes this most extreme of human experiences. We know this to be true, for instance, from the mountain of evidence that has been accumulating over the years demonstrating a distinct causal relationship (yes, I say relationship, not association) between folk who are subjected to violence and later deaths by suicide. Think about the victims/survivors of war, misogyny, racism, ableism, sanism, homophobia, transphobia, and child abuse. It was never about us but rather, the violence of others.

DANIEL JEFFERY

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Danny Jeffery was medically discharged from the Royal Australian Air Force in 2018 after serving the Defence Force for 35 years. Danny deployed on nine separate ADF Operations, suffered multiple physical injuries and has adapted his life to suit them. He is also living with PTSD, Major Depressive Disorder and Anxiety Disorder. His mental health is the biggest struggle and diversity he has ever faced in his life.

Danny’s mental health first fell apart in 2013 after returning from 8.5 months in Afghanistan. After 85 combat missions, Danny returned home claiming mission success, so he thought. Mentally his world fell apart without the pace of war to distract him. He finally had time to process things and just could not. ‘I just didn’t fit in back here at home, flashbacks consumed my days and nightmares consumed my sleep. I just wanted to go back in the hope that would help’.

In 2014 Danny discovered the Invictus Games. He felt that good he deployed to the Middle East again in 2015. Danny suffered a major mental health episode and returned in Nov 2015 to never wear a uniform again. In 2015 Danny was not going to give up on his pathway to recovery and successfully returned to the Invictus Games Orlando 2016 and Sydney 2018. After long term rehabilitation he was medically discharged in 2018. Throughout these dark days Danny experienced what he calls his ‘suicide chapter’ and is a proud survivor. ‘Finally in life I was not good at something, and it helped me realise that it wasn’t that I didn’t want to live anymore, I just didn’t want to live the way I was living, and I had the power to make changes.’

Danny is now a Licensed Mental Health First Aid instructor and is currently the Emergency Department Peer Navigator at Prince of Wales Hospital Sydney. He is embedded within a clinical team which is a first for NSW Health. Danny encourages hope for recovery and offers support and mentorship to those struggling with their mental health. He is passionate about removing the stigma and barriers people face when struggling with mental health and wants everyone to have the realisation that ‘it is possible to reach the light at the end of the tunnel. The biggest thing for me when I reached the light, was accepting the new me and I actually like this version’.

CAROLYN RIPPER

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I am a mother who has been bereaved by suicide. My beautiful 37-year-old son, Ryan, took his life in the early hours while incarcerated on remand. He had ended up in custody after a suspected drug-induced, violent psychotic episode. Before this, he was just a regular guy with his own business, plenty of good mates, and active engagement in the local community. He volunteered at his local cricket club, found love with a new partner, and adored his kids. However, he lived with ongoing trauma from a previous toxic marriage breakdown, complicated by his own childhood trauma. To cope with stress and depression, he turned to cocaine. Unfortunately, this slippery slope of addiction soon led him to an ice addiction, which drastically changed his behavior and personality.

My son’s story drives me to make a difference through my involvement with the Suicide Prevention Lived Experience Panel. I want to draw on this horrendous experience to provide insight into effective policies, strategies, programs, and guidelines. Ryan’s issues were complex and involved far more than his mental health. He admitted he had failed himself with his addiction, but there were so many systemic failings in addressing all his interrelated issues. If he had received greater support after his marriage breakdown, assistance in navigating his children’s custody and access issues, and access to affordable, timely, and trauma-informed healthcare at the level he required in a rural area and within the justice system, things might have been different.

As a member of SPA, I aim to bring the focus to these broader issues in the prevention of suicide. My experience in trying to navigate and support my son through the complex web he found himself in is intertwined with my professional background as a health professional. I work at the health system level, implementing a statewide strategic program for patients and consumers to self-report what matters, including their mental health. Sadly, I have had the irony of looking at the big picture while not looking close enough to home and those most dear to me. I hope I can make some impact for change.

SNEHA ANTHONY

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After the tragic loss of her only sibling, a 27-year-old pilot who died by suicide, while still coping with the sudden natural death of her father at the age of 59, and sustaining injuries in a road accident, Sneha Anthony faced significant challenges with complex PTSD, depression and trauma dissociation.

A former senior engineer in the corporate sector, Sneha now dedicates her time and skills to suicide prevention and mental health initiatives. She is particularly passionate about addressing the unique challenges faced by ethnic and vulnerable communities, where suicide and mental health issues are often heavily stigmatized, leading to shame and social exclusion.

Sneha has actively participated in various lived experience consultations and shares her personal journey through presentations and educational videos, aiming to raise awareness about mental health, stigma, and suicide prevention—despite the potential for judgement of her family and herself.

She serves on multiple advisory committees, collaborates on various sector projects, is an accredited trainer for the Touchpoints RITO Suicide Prevention Programme, chaired the establishment of a safe space for ethnic communities experiencing distress and serves as a presenter and educator with several organisations. She was awarded the 2024 Commissioner’s Community Champions Award by the Mental Health Commission of NSW for her work in this area.

BRIAN CLARKE

JACQUI GILLESPIE

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I am Jacqui Gillespie, a mother, daughter, sister, wife, friend, colleague and Director of Stepping Stone North in Brisbane. I am solar powered, just as passionate in all of these roles and began my career in community mental health about 11years ago. I was a carer long before that to family members and have my own lived and living experience of suicide.

Over the years, I have worked and volunteered in both the Mental Health and LLE of Suicide Prevention space and love to wear a few different colours proudly throughout the year while advocating, sharing my story and providing psychosocial, non-clinical support. Yellow brightens the room when I am showing up as an RUOK? Community Ambassador, hot pink lights up my heart when volunteering as a Shero with Share the Dignity and navy with a pop of my favourite colour teal are the colours, you’ll find me wearing most days out in the community and inside our special little Clubhouse at Stepping Stone North.

CASSI STRAUSS

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Cassi grew up in the space and time of “toughen up princess” and the expectations were to be “seen and not heard”. Due to this, it wasn’t until their early 30’s, after what felt like a lifetime of experiences, that they realised not everyone had thoughts of killing themselves, of not existing, of not ever wanting to have been born. Seeing life as a burden that they were forced to endure, rather than an opportunity of which they could meaningfully contribute to.

Through a mid-life career change into the Mental Health sector, Cassi discovered Peer work – and everything that came along with it. They embraced any and all learning opportunities including facilitating local Alt2Su groups, which really supported Cassi to make sense of their experiences and create their own narrative to their story.

Now, as a wife and mother of 3, Cassi continues to have consistent thoughts of ending her life, including a plan – but these thoughts have become a tool of survival as opposed to “a threat to self”. Cassi proactively engages in the “hard conversations” and takes any opportunity to remind people that sometimes we experience normal responses to abnormal situations – even if societal expectations would have us think otherwise.

EMMA BOUCHER

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With almost 30 years of experience in the field of mental health, Emma’s professional background has equipped her with comprehensive insights into the complexities of mental health challenges and the multifaceted nature of death by suicide. However, her dedication to suicide prevention is not solely professional; it is profoundly
personal.

Emma tragically lost her brother to suicide, a loss that has fuelled her determination to make a difference in this critical area. This personal experience has given Emma a unique perspective on the devastating impact of suicide on families, communities, and workplaces. For over a decade Emma has been driven to seek out, and implement, effective strategies for prevention and early intervention, especially within workplace settings

BRIANA BENNETT

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Briana is from Naarm (Melbourne), hails from Warrnambool, Victoria, and is a dedicated advocate and lived experience speaker who champions for compassionate and person-centered community support in the suicide prevention and postvention space.

With a background as a Registered Nurse with over six years’ experience in the front line medical and community mental health sector, and now a committed Outreach Support Worker in the postvention sector, Briana supports individuals and their families bereaved by suicide.

Having lost her brother to suicide in 2018 when she was only 21, this personal experience drives Briana’s passion for supporting those who are navigating the aftermath of suicide loss, advocating for individualised grief support, particularly for young people experiencing loss.

Throughout her career, Briana’s advocacy in this space has included involvement in several lived experience consultations and the promotion of mental health initiatives that prioritse the needs of individuals and communities affected by suicide. Briana’s commitment to raising awareness about the critical importance of suicide prevention and postvention care, aims to reduce stigma and improve access to vital services for suicide loss survivors.

Briana’s goal is to work toward building stronger, more compassionate systems of care that support both individuals and communities in their healing journey.

MICHAEL ELWAN

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I know what it’s like to lose someone to suicide. My mother took her own life. I have lost others too – people I loved deeply. I know the silence that follows, the weight of unanswered questions, and the way suicide doesn’t just take a life; it tears through families, through communities, through generations.

Growing up in a culturally and linguistically diverse (CaLD) household, I saw how mental health struggles were hidden, dismissed as weakness, or met with silence. Seeking help meant navigating a system that didn’t understand us. I have dedicated my life to changing that.

With over 15 years in mental health and suicide prevention, I have worked across frontline services, senior leadership, and policy reform, ensuring suicide prevention is trauma-informed, culturally responsive, and shaped by lived experience. My work has influenced national and state strategies, leading programs that provide real support to those who need it most.

I hold a Bachelor of Commerce, an MBA with Distinction, a Master of Social Work, a MicroMasters of Business Leadership, a MicroMasters of Organisational Psychology, a Graduate Certificate in Mental Health, and I am currently undertaking a PhD in Lived Experience Leadership.

I am a member of the Australian Association of Social Workers (AASW), Suicide Prevention Australia’s WA State Committee, and the Sustainable Health Review Steering Group (WA Health). I also serve as a board member for the Association For Services To Torture & Trauma Survivors (ASeTTS), and a mental health educator at WA Recovery College. My work has been recognised with multiple awards for advocacy, leadership, and innovation.

But this work is not about titles or policies – it’s about people. It’s about those who feel invisible, who believe they are a burden, who cannot see a way forward.

If that’s you, please hear me: You are not alone. You do not have to do this in silence. If the weight feels unbearable, reach out. There is love here. There is hope here. There is still a life worth living, even if you can’t see it yet.

EUGENE MOORE

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My lived experience of suicidality goes back to my daily struggle, from the age of 21 to 35, to live the heterosexual life I was taught I must live. By the time I’d been married almost 14 years, the daily suicidal ideation turned into a last-second aborted attempt. I had previously lost my favourite uncle to suicide when his own closet door had opened, and he couldn’t live with the rejection from our family.

Finally leaving my own closet, I became determined to understand it. I wanted to understand why it’s been constructed; what it’s made of; the damage it does not only to those living inside, but to those living in its shadow; and most importantly, how it can be demolished.

I would eventually move to New Zealand and study for a PhD in gay identity where I’d find the answers to my questions, but not just within my studies; mostly within the most traditionally queerphobic and masculine institutions in the world – military and police.

It began when was I invited by the Chief of Navy to address his very reluctant senior officers on the matter of integrating openly gay sailors into the navy. At the end of my talk, the captain who had been the most opposed to me being there, turned to the admiral and said, “My mind’s been changed on this. And what’s changed it is understanding what it would be like to live in the closet. I couldn’t stand to live like that, and I don’t expect anyone else in the navy to live like that either. So, let’s do something.” He was making an indirect reference to suicide when he said: “I couldn’t stand to live like that.” And at that pivotal moment, was born the world’s first comprehensive program to eliminate homophobia in a national military.

My experience within military and then with the New Zealand Police and New Zealand Customs Service, gave me the answers I was seeking, and as a result, I was able to find a way to make those who construct the closet happily deconstruct it when they realised that they and all of society are living in its shadow as well, in ways that they’d never imagined.

I learned that queerphobia needs to move from a minority issue to a universal human crisis, peeling back the illusion that the queerphobia that leads to queer suicidality exists in a vacuum, and instead reveal how it corrodes the whole fabric of society, leading to unnecessary deaths, broken families, and societal dysfunction. That it’s a sociological and psychological emergency, not a niche concern.

LEWCHING YIP

Want to get involved?

Whilst we are not currently taking applications, expressions of interest will be sent to our members when positions on our Lived Experience Panel become available.

Lived Experience Resources

If you are looking for more information about how to integrate lived experience into your organisation, check out the following resources.

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Learnlinc

Created by Suicide Prevention Australia, Learnlinc facilitates learning and skill development in the field of suicide prevention. It has over 150 resources and educational opportunities, enabling people to identify their learning needs, achieve learning goals, and apply that knowledge effectively in suicide prevention efforts.  

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Suicide Prevention Accreditation Program

Supports organisations to implement safe, high-quality, and effective suicide prevention and postvention programs in Australia. Accredited programs meet the Suicide Prevention Australia Standards for Quality Improvement which require programs to collaborate and consult with people who have a lived experience of suicide in all aspects of program development and delivery.

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Roses in the Ocean, stemming the tide of suicide

Roses in the Ocean

Roses in the Ocean is Australia’s national lived experience of suicide organisation. They exist to save lives & to reduce emotional distress & pain. They have a variety of resources to understand and integrate lived experience better, along with workshops to support change in workplaces

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International Association for Suicide Prevention (IASP)

IASP leads the global role in suicide prevention by strategically developing an effective forum that is proactive in creating strong collaborative partnerships and promoting evidence-based action in order to reduce the incidence of suicide and suicidal behaviour. They have created a Lived Experience of Suicide Outreach Brief which highlights tips on engaging with people who have a lived experience of suicide.

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Acknowledgement of Lived Experience
We honour all people with Lived or Living Experience of suicide, including those that are bereaved, carers and supporters, people who have experienced suicidal ideation, and those that have survived a suicide attempt.

We remember and hold space for those we have lost, and we acknowledge the pain, grief and loss felt by individuals, families, and communities when suicide touches our lives. We recognise that the effects of suicide are felt far and wide.

Yet, we also recognise the unique insights carried by those with lived and living experience of suicide, and the strength they possess. And we thank the advocates who have come before us, and who have spoken out at a time when it was deemed unacceptable to do so.

Through collective lived and living experience, we move purposely towards a hopeful tomorrow. A tomorrow more equitable – not one in which suicide is hidden away in silos of shame or silence, but instead where we drive meaningful change and make positive impacts in the spaces, places and worlds in which we live.

Co-designed by: Sneha Anthony, Rachael Burns, Jacqui Gillespie, Jo Kain, Karissa Lewis, Carolyn Ripper, Gabrielle Voller and Jennifer Waltmon.

If you have any questions about lived experience, please contact Suicide Prevention Australia at livedexperience@suicidepreventionaust.org or phone 02 9262 1130.